Deciding to adopt was actually a pretty easy decision for us (strangely enough it took us longer to decide on the name of this blog). Then we looked at each other and said, now what? It was a bit overwhelming at first to even figure out where to start!
The first thing we were able to do was to complete one of our three required eight hour classes. Brian even restrained himself from complaining
about missing a day of college football and a CSU football game that we had
tickets too. I knew he was a keeper! The class was very interesting and talked
about everything from what to expect during the adoption process to what to
expect day one when you get your child to how to talk to your child about
adoption. It really helps that the ladies that run the class have both adopted
internationally so they could give great insight. Brian and I left with our
heads spinning and lots to talk about, but we are excited for the next two
classes to see what else we can learn. As first time parents we have no idea what to expect, so we will take all the help we can get!
The week of
Thanksgiving we took advantage of an afternoon off work to go to the police
station to get fingerprinted. I don’t think I have ever said the words “See you
at the police station!” to Brian and let’s hope it’s the last time! The
process was easy and we learned that I have sweaty fingers (I don't care who you are, it's not normal to be in a police station getting your fingerprints done and not be nervous!) and Brian’s got
great prints. Let’s just hope the state of Colorado deems them good enough so
we don’t have to do that again!
So far so good, it's nice to get a few things checked off the list! Speaking of that list, I'll fill you in next post as to what the wonderful world of adoption paperwork is like! Here's a hint, after getting all the background checks and Homeland security clearances, Brian may actually qualify for a job with the FBI. I'm sure they need graphic designers, right?
